Everyone has a different outlook on life. But don’t forget to live according to reality, there will be nothing to suffer. When we try to find something different from the normal cycle of life to create a truth for us. It means that sometimes we are being exaggerated to be insecure with reality or are not living in reality or plotting too different that sometimes real life is not!
After all, we don't really know anything. For each of them has an immeasurable depth. What we think, feel, or experience about something or someone... is just a thin layer of reality, what we know is just a tiny grain of sand on the ocean floor.
So, when we live by naming or labeling with our own thoughts for any problem that comes, anyone we meet... will make us numb to the reality of life and life. become shallow, dull.
That is the reason why we pay less attention, less thinking, less talking, less desire, less principles... and we will be less sad, less angry, less regretful, less demanding, less disappointed..., even less heartbroken and sad...
P/s: Pham Hien rewrote it from a personal perspective when consulting many people who were psychologically ambitious and deceived + ambitious and left their family to be free, but that's not the case.